Cupla

Erika Palmer

Jack Hopner

Everything you need to know to make Cupla work for you

Setting up Cupla

How to create a Cupla account on iPhone or Android, including available sign-up methods.

How do I set up my account?

How to enable or disable notifications in your device settings and how to manage individual notification types in the Cupla app.

How do I enable or disable notifications?

Cupla follows your phone's language automatically. Here's how to update the language setting on iOS or Android so Cupla appears in your preferred language.

How do I update the language in Cupla?

You can choose which notifications you receive from Cupla in More > Notification Settings, with toggles for each notification type.

How do I choose what notifications I want to receive?

You can update your birthday in Cupla by going to More > your profile > Birthday.

How do I update my birthday?

A complete set-up and optimisation checklist for Cupla — covering the essentials of getting set up with your partner, and the optional steps that help you get the most out…

Best practices: a Cupla set-up checklist

Key Dates in Cupla let you track special days like anniversaries, birthdays, trips, and milestones — with in-app countdowns and a Countdown widget for your phone's home screen.

Adding special dates and anniversaries (Key Dates)

Initial Set-up

Each partner has their own home screen image in Cupla. Here's how to update yours.

How do I update the image on my home screen?

Your profile image represents you across Cupla. Here's how to change it.

How do I change my profile image?

Your partner's profile image can only be changed by your partner themselves. Here's what to do if you'd like it updated.

How do I change my partner's image?

Cupla uses three main colours (You, Me, Us) to keep the calendar glanceable. Here's the design thinking behind it, and how tags give you more colour granularity when you need…

Why does Cupla only have three main colours?

Personalization

Guidance on choosing which calendars appear in Cupla, syncing calendars from Calendar Settings, and controlling whether your partner can see event details for each calendar.

Choosing what calendars to sync to Cupla

Steps for changing a calendar’s assignee in Cupla Calendar Connections, including assigning calendars to Me, My Partner, or Us.

Assigning a calendar to Me, My Partner, or Us

The default 1st day of the week is set on your iPhone and is based on your region. To change this follow these steps: Go to your Settings app on…

How do I change the first day of the week?

Set up your work calendar on your device, then in the Cupla app tap More, tap 'Calendar Settings', and tap ‘Calendar Connections’.

How do I change my calendar events displaying as Busy?

It's easy to hide or unhide your calendars in just a few seconds: tap More, select 'Sharing & Privacy', then select 'Event Privacy'.

How do I hide/unhide my calendars?

Learn how Direct Connect and Device Calendars work in Cupla Calendar Settings, including calendars not available on your device, syncing when Cupla is not opened regularly, and why some work…

What is the difference between Direct Connect and Device Calendars?

To update your settings so that events no longer appear as busy to your partner, please follow these steps: Tap More Tap Calendar Settings Tap Calendar Connections Scroll down and…

How do I change my events from displaying to my partner as busy?

Explains the Personal vs Work permission prompt when connecting a calendar via Direct Connect, and what to choose to get full event details in Cupla.

Why am I being asked for workplace permissions when connecting a calendar?

How to subscribe to your Cupla calendar so your events appear in Google Calendar or Apple Calendar on iPhone.

How do I see my Cupla calendar on other calendars?

If you have an unwanted calendar, here's what to do: Tap More, tap ‘Calendar Settings’, then tap ‘Calendar Connections’.

How do I remove unwanted calendars?

Here’s how to add your direct connect your Google calendar: Tap More or 'Settings' (cog in the top right on Android), then tap 'Calendar Settings' and 'Calendar Connections'.

How do I direct connect my Google calendar?

Here’s how to add your direct connect your Outlook calendar: Tap More, tap 'Calendar Settings', then tap ‘Calendar Connections’.

How do I direct connect my Outlook calendar?

If you have deleted an event on your device calendar (iCal) and it is still appearing in your Cupla calendar, it could be that the calendar events were originally created…

How do I prevent deleted events appearing in Cupla?

The easiest way to add a public holiday calendar is to set this up on your iCal and sync the holiday calendar with Cupla. Here's how: Follow this guide to…

How do I add a public holiday calendar?

You can generally unsync the Public Holidays calendar by following these steps: Tap More (top right) Tap Calendar Settings Tap Calendar Connections Scroll down and toggle off a calendar with…

How do I remove a public holiday calendar?

Getting the most out of the Cupla calendar

Calendar Setup

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